Hey, I’ve been in a kinda similar situation, so I totally get how you're feeling. A few months ago, my partner suddenly got super private with her phone—same deal: calls in another room, screen flipped down, new passcode. I felt like I was going crazy, not wanting to accuse her but needing some peace of mind. I ended up using this tool I found: call history check . It let me see the full call history without needing access all the time. Turned out she was just planning a surprise trip for my birthday (lol), but honestly, it helped me stop spiraling. Might be worth checking out if you just need some answers.